Polling in Europe

June 9, 2008

If Europeans had a voice in the US presidential election:

Germany: 67-7, Obama-McCain.

Italy 70-15, Obama-McCain.

United Kingdom, 49-14, Obama-McCain.

France 65-8, Obama-McCain.

This is probably no surprise, but still worth emphasizing. The issue? Codpiece diplomacy, of course. There is a feeling, a hope, that Obama will give them reasons to admire the US once again.

Of course, the denizens of codpiece diplomacy are alive and kicking. Consider this morsel from Thomas Sowell: “when all is said and done, Senator McCain has not spent decades aiding and abetting people who hate America”.


Appeasement vs. Dialogue

May 20, 2008

President Bush recently remarked:

“Some seem to believe that we should negotiate with the terrorists and radicals, as if some ingenious argument will persuade them they have been wrong all along,” Mr. Bush said. “We have heard this foolish delusion before. As Nazi tanks crossed into Poland in 1939, an American senator declared: “Lord, if I could only have talked to Hitler, all this might have been avoided.” We have an obligation to call this what it is - the false comfort of appeasement, which has been repeatedly discredited by history.”

There is speculation that President Bush is a “closet Catholic”. Rick Sanatorum has said that the President is “much more Catholic than Kennedy.” As we continue to pray for our elected leaders, lets continue to hope that the President integrates the teachings of Pope John Paul the Great as he faces the problems of our world:

From “Dialogue for Peace, A Challenge for Our Time
by JPtG, 1983

Dialogue is necessary for true peace . . .

Is it not necessary to give everything in order to avoid war . . . given the evil that every war [every war?] represents its price that has to be paid in human lives, in suffering, in the devastation . . . the deterioration of the social fabric, the hardening of mistrust and hatred which wars maintain towards ones neighbour?

But some people today, who consider themselves realists [Republicans and Democrats, alike, share this tendency.], are doubtful about the possibility of dialogue and its effectiveness, not least when the positions are so tense and irreconcilable that they seem to allow no space for any agreement. How many negative experiences, how many repeated setbacks, would seem to support this disillusioned viewpoint!

And yet, dialogue for peace is possible, always possible. It is not a utopia.

. . . dialogue is blocked by an a priori decision to concede nothing, by a refusal to listen, by a claim to be - oneself and only oneself - the measure of justice. This attitude can conceal quite simply the blind and deaf selfishness of a people, or more often the will to power of its leaders. It also happens that this attitude coincides with an exaggerated and out-of-date concept of the sovereignty and security of the State [Could any American politician ever admit that "National Security" depends upon a global solidarity that trumps "sovereignty"?]. The State then runs the risk of becoming the object of a so to speak unquestionable worship. It runs the risk of justifying the most questionable undertaking. Orchestrated by the powerful means at the disposal of propaganda, such worship - which is not to be confused with properly understood patriotric attachment to one’s own nation - can inhibit the critical sense and moral sense of the more aware citizens and can encourage them to go to war ["Bomb, Bomb, Bomb, Bomb-Bomb-Iran"?].

Does the President equate dialogue with appeasement? In characterizing peace-talks as an attempt to “persuade them they have been wrong all along,” President Bush embodies a proud America - an America that displays a “refusal to listen,” a refusal that reveals the “blind and deaf selfishness” of those who claim to be the sole “the measure of justice” within our world. As long as we persist in a Manichean perspective that demonizes opponents, we will continue to remain blind to our own injustice.

While dialogue earnestly searches for truth in the hopes of peace, appeasement closes its eyes and gives in to the apathy of despair. Appeasers hide and cower in the face of harsh realities. Dialogue proposes the opposite: opening our hearts to the truth by listening to our enemies, by confronting our fears. When the President, or any of us, refuse to dialogue with our enemise (Wanted Dead or Alive?), we violate the wisdom and teaching of the Catholic Church. We become appeasers.


Pope Urges Ban on Cluster Bombs

May 19, 2008

From Zenit:

MAY 18, 2008 - Benedict XVI has expressed hope that a Dublin conference beginning Monday will ban cluster bombs . . . the Pope expressed the hope that “through the responsibility of all the participants, a strong and credible international instrument will be created” at the Dublin Diplomatic Conference on Cluster Munitions.

The meeting, to be held through May 30, will gather representatives from some 100 countries to negotiate a new instrument of international humanitarian law banning cluster munitions, which are blamed for indiscriminately killing and maiming civilians in conflict zones.

“In fact it is necessary to remedy the errors of the past and to avoid their repetition in the future,” added the Holy Father. “I accompany the victims of cluster munitions and their families with my prayers as well as the participants in the conference, offering my best wishes of success.”

The United States will not be attending the event.

Peace is a duty. As Pope John Paul the Great tells us: “For the Catholic faithful, the commitment to build peace and justice is not secondary but essential.” For our politicians, he has even stronger words:

Day after day, year after year, the cumulative effect of bitter mutual rejection and an unending chain of violence and retaliation have shattered every effort so far to engage in serious dialogue on the real issues involved. The volatility of the situation is compounded by the clash of interests among the members of the international community. Until those in positions of responsibility undergo a veritable revolution in the way they use their power and go about securing their peoples’ welfare, it is difficult to imagine how progress towards peace can be made. (WDP 2003)


Halving Abortion in Ten Years

May 12, 2008

Darwin at DarwinCatholic:

Heck, if I thought it seriously within the power of the Democratic Party to reduce abortion by 50% in ten years, I’d pretty seriously consider voting for them.

While the Dem’s 95-10 plan has been DOA for years (here is Obama supporter Doug Kmiec arguing that his candidate should support the plan, though he currently does not), let me offer a counter-proposal: “The Trillion Dollar Plan

The plan devotes one trillion dollars over ten years to the reduction of “lawful” abortion (100 billion a year). Five hundred billion could be devoted to educating youngsters about the sacredness of sexuality, the profanity of promiscuity, and the horror of abortion (that’s about $2500 per child per year). The other half of The Trillion Dollar Plan could support maternity homes (i.e., free housing, free food, free counseling), adoption centers, and subsidized health care (that’s about $25,000 per crisis pregnancy per year).

Why support the The Trillion Dollar Plan?

For Republicans: How much do you want to stop the slaughter of our unborn? Badly enough to risk our nation’s wealth? Put your money where your mouth is.

For Democrats: Do you want the Catholic vote? Do you want to win the White House? Then listen carefully: end your party of death.


Someone’s trying to kill my family

March 28, 2008

Wildermuths

So both of my parents live and work in Iraq’s green zone, which is currently being attacked by rockets. Reportedly, two Americans have been killed this week. As the Shi’ites begin to kill one another across Iraq, and as my brother (a Marine infantryman) begins his 2nd deployment to Iraq, my emotions creep into the dark-side. Someone is trying to kill my family. The enemy is attempting to mutilate their bodies, scar their hearts, and destroy their being. If my mother comes back with half a face and a breathing tube down her throat, if my brother comes back with missing limbs and burnt-out eyes, if my father comes back in a flag-draped coffin, then I can’t predict what I would do. Maybe I’d reenlist into the Army. Maybe I’d get on TV and scream, “This enemy will never stop! The only solution is to kill them all!” Or maybe I’d cultivate silent hate.

But my faith in Jesus Christ and his Church calls me to another path, for my faith reveals the truth about my enemy, our enemy: “This enemy is not human.” We cannot destroy this enemy with a rifle, with a surge, with a military occupation.

Pope JPtG taught us, “no peace without justice, no justice without forgiveness.” Killing people in Iraq will not bring forgiveness. Rifles are not tools of reconciliation. Stryker armored vehicles rolling into Sadr city will not broker mercy. Bombs falling will not lead to flowers and forgiveness. The United States Military is an organization that trains for one thing: the spilling of human blood. Warriors know this. Soldiers are not trained in conflict-resolution during basic training. They’re trained to stick sharpened pieces of metal into human bodies while yelling, “KILL!”

No peace without justice. No justice without forgiveness.

And no forgiveness without sacrifice - ours, upon crosses, with “father, forgive them,” on our lips, with love of enemy in our hearts. To all Christians, I ask you - how is killing a self-sacrifice for love of enemy? How is killing an overture of reconciliation? How is killing a work of mercy? What sacrifices are you willing to make, rather than take? Make a sacrifice or take a sacrifice - carry a cross or carry a rifle. Both crosses and rifles require courage, both require bloodshed, both require sacrifice, but only one leads to forgiveness, to justice, to peace. Only one is VICTORY.

“Loving the enemy is the nucleus of the ‘Christian revolution’ . . . (it) is rightly considered the magna carta of Christian nonviolence.” - Pope Benedict XVI


God, Bless America

March 15, 2008

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How much difference one comma makes: God, bless America.

This prayer is a sincere petition, not a foregone conclusion. The flag is flown upside down as a signal of distress, not as a sign of hatred. We must love our homeland, but love leaves no room for idolatry. It takes more love to proclaim hard truth than it does to revel in ignorance. Ignorance is a hard truth. Most Americans, indeed, many Catholic Americans, are ignorant or oblivious or apathetic about their country’s crimes. Are we ignorant of America’s idolatry and injustice? If we fly the flag proudly, then we are ignorant about the mass slaughter of our unborn. If we fly our flag proudly, then we are ignorant of American greed. If we fly our flag proudly, then we are ignorant of the world’s blood on our hands. If we fly our flag in any other way other than upside-down (as a prophetic sign of distress), then we are ignorant of the satanic forces that grip America - past, present, and (God, forbid), future.

Mark Twain puts it best, in his revised version of The Battle Hymn of the Republic:

Mine eyes have seen the orgy of the launching of the Sword;
He is searching out the hoardings where the stranger’s wealth is stored;
He hath loosed his fateful lightnings, and with woe and death has scored;
His lust is marching on.

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Yesterday’s Reading - David Weeps

February 6, 2008

How does the story of David and Absalom help us to understand the Son of David’s admonition to love our enemies?


Vox Nova at the Movies: There will be Blood (3)

February 5, 2008

A week has gone by, and I’m still haunted by the potrayal of evil found in this movie. I’ve often asked myself, “how is it possible for so many people to receive the Eucharist, to pray daily, to display great love and service to their family, friends, and strangers, and yet promote the gravest forms of evil (abortion, war, poverty, etc).”

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Not by the Sword

September 11, 2007
God allows us our freedom, and yet in our failures he can always find new paths for his love. God does not fail. (Pope Benedict, 08Sept, Zenit)

In the grief following September 11th, America took vengeance. We invaded Iraq and destroyed it. We said, “better to fight them over there than over here,” upholding the old American tradition of counting some persons as only two-thirds human - this time Iraqi instead of African.

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God will kill America

September 3, 2007
“When the Philistines had killed Jonathan, Abinadab, and Malchishua, sons of Saul, the whole fury of the battle descended upon Saul. Then the archers found him, and wounded him with their arrows. Saul said to his armor-bearer, “Draw your sword and thrust me through with it, that these uncircumcised may not come and maltreat me.” But the armor-bearer, in great fear, refused. So Saul took his own sword and fell on it; and seeing him dead, the armor-bearer also fell on his sword and died . . . (The Philistines) cut off his head, and took his armor . . . his skull they impaled on the temple of Dagon.

Thus Saul died because of his rebellion against the LORD in disobeying his command . . . Therefore the LORD slew him.”

- 1 Chronicles 10

God will not let evil go unchecked forever. Our intoxicated faces are splattered with the blood of those we’ve killed - the unborn, the foreign, the poor, the tortured. Our grins reveal white teeth blackened by the reflection of bloodstained bodies. Our polished fingernails can’t hide the ashes of those we’ve burnt. Our colorful lips can’t cover the foul reek of our decayed souls. Our spiritual bulimia tears at our mouthes - out flow writhing pieces of little children torn from wombs and countries that we hate. America will burn in its handmade hell soon enough, if . . . we . . . do . . . not . . . repent.

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Befriending ‘Lepers’

August 7, 2007

Yesterday I was in a coffee shop, enjoying free high-speed internet, thinking about what to write for Vox Nova. Just as a moment of inspiration struck me, just as my skin started to tingle with excitement, I felt someone standing over me. I looked up to find a middle-aged African-American woman staring at me.

“Can I have a dollar?” she asked.

When I first came to DC, I gave out dollars left and right. One cannot walk for more than 10 minutes in DC without being asked for money. I took Jesus at his word (”Give to all who ask of you.”), and often gave something - no matter how small. When I didn’t give money, I felt bad all day long. I imagined standing before Christ, condemned by my refusal to give his children even half a cup of water.

Then I spent a year living and working in a transitional home for drug addicts. The addicts were horrified that I gave out money to people. They told me that I was filling up crack pipes, not stomachs. I knew they were right, but still felt that I had to do something to help those in need. I had moved into the transitional home for that reason - to help the homeless in a significant way.

I started to change. I stopped giving money consistently. I began to ask beggars if they wanted to eat with me, or if I could buy them some food. I demanded to know why someone needed money. I often felt cheated, lied to, and even angry. I wouldn’t load shotguns for the Army, so why should I fill crack pipes for the homeless?

“Just a dollar?” the woman asked again.

I was in a coffee shop, relaxing. I was in the middle of writing for Vox Nova - you know, doing something important. I hesitated, hoping that she might go away. I think I coughed out a question - why did she want money? What did she need it for? I knew she was drunk-sick-something. She was wavering on her feet, speaking in low tones that I could barely understand.

“Water,” she mumbled at me.

I looked back at the coffee counter.

“I’ll buy you something,” I offered, knowing she’d turn me down, and darkly satisfied that this might cause her to leave me alone. As expected, she shook her head. She looked out the window, mumbled about a liquor store.

At this point, I knew I was in trouble. I couldn’t give her money. I could only give her time. I could go buy her some water, sit her down, listen to her . . . love her. But I was impatient, hot, and tired of broken people asking me to help them get numb.

“Sorry,” I said, giving up. “I can’t do anything.”

She paused, leaned close, took my hand, and released a single-syllable offer: “Sex?”

I gripped her hand, feeling revulsion, horror, and pity, and shook my head. “No. I’m sorry. God bless you, but . . . I’m sorry.” As she left the coffee shop, I felt anything but sorry. I felt relieved. Only later did the guilt set in.


Mammon can’t help the poor. Mammon can only enslave them, as he has already enslaved so many of us. Cold cash will kill us in the end. If I’d given a million dollars to the woman in the coffee shop, I’d probably have put the last nail in her spiritual coffin. She didn’t need Mammon. She needed Good News - a cup of water, an open ear, a place to sleep in safety, a group of friends, a family, a new vision of a new life . . . hope.

May God grant our Church the courage to truly befriend the poor, the broken, the diseased and dying. I know I don’t have the courage. But maybe together, we can find a way to invite the lost into our family - even if it costs us our comfortable sedate lives.


Power, politics, and evil

July 27, 2007

While I find Alexham’s and MM’s posts about abortion and politics very engaging and informative, I think they’ve run into a trap. To me, it seems that they are arguing about which demon is less evil. Which demon should we support? The one with baby heads for a necklace, or the one with nukes for fingers? Must we support one or the other?

Gandhi once remarked that a soldier had to wage war for as long as he thought that violence was the only solution to the world’s problems. If all we see are evil choices - then our conscience demands that we choose the lesser of those evils.

But the Gospel proposes a different vision of the world - a world with new choices, with good choices. It does so by transcending suffering and conquering death. The Gospel redefines the meaning of power. Power isn’t found in men and their bills. It is found in the body of Christ.

In practical terms, this means putting subsidiary into action and downsizing the central government to its properly marginal size - decentralized and federalized. This means only voting for candidates that believe in the One, Holy, Catholic, and Apostolic Church, and display lives of love that prove their faith. More importantly, it means showing up at abortion clinics to pray - even to be arrested in nonviolent action. It means financially adopting the babies of women who are considering abortions. It means living in solidarity with the poor. It means challenging the war-powers to consider Christ’s message of love for enemy. It means sacrificing our lives for those who hate us.

It means not bowing down before the demons of abortion and war, not voting for lesser evils, but rather working to see Christ’s disciples dominate the governance of our nation -a governance performed not from distant ivory towers, but from the gutters of our inner cities.


Incomprehensibly Incorruptible

July 21, 2007

In between pilgrimages to the various tombs of our Church’s holy saints (I write from Perugia, Italy), I have been reading The Lord of the Rings. I have just finished Part 1 - the fellowship of the ring. Frodo has just escaped from Boromir’s mad attempt to steal the ring, and has stolen away across the river with Sam. They will travel to Mordor in an attempt to destroy the Ring of Power.

Corrupting Power

I wonder about power. The ring tempts men with its power to defeat Sauron, who seems like the source of all evil. Yet we are told that those who might wield the ring to defeat Sauron would become another Sauron - those who use the power of the ring to defeat evil would become evil themselves. All the wisest characters in LoTR refuse to take the ring. They refuse to embrace the temptations of power.

But I want to explore Boromir’s understanding, or madness. Why should power be evil? What is wrong with using power with a pure heart and a noble cause? Why should the ring not be used to defeat evil? Why must power corrupt, and absolute power corrupt absolutely?

If absolute power corrupts, then an all-powerful God would be all-corrupted. But God is all-good. So clearly power can be good, if it is rooted in God.

Two Powers

I can only conclude that there must be distinct forms of power - forms that are evil and forms that are good. There is the power of Sauron and the power of hobbits. Sauron’s power corrupts the spirits of those it touches. The hobbits’ power sustains the spirit of those it touches. Sauron’s power makes men mad and rash. The hobbit’s power turns men to reason and patience.

One power offers corruption.
One power offers immunity to corruption.

The Power of Evil

Sauron’s power is a plague afflicting the world, a plague that tempts men by afflicting them, by blackmailing them, by hurting them and caging them and killing them. But it does so for a deeper purpose. Evil is sly and deceitful. Evil seeks to destroy our bodies because it hopes that we will become evil in defense of our bodies. Evil seeks to threaten our existence so that we might become evil in our protection of that existence. Sauron’s evil will live as long as someone embraces that evil, as long as the Ring of Power is wielded. If Boromir or Gandalf or Aragorn or any other character uses the Ring to destroy Sauron, then they become Sauron, and evil laughs at its triumph.

Evil presents us a doomed-if-we-do/doomed-if-we-don’t scenario. It presents us a lie: “either you fight against Sauron without the Ring of Power and lose your war, or you fight against Sauron with the Ring of Power and lose your heart.” Either way, evil lives on and we die enslaved to it. But this scenario of doom is a lie, for it presents power in only one form.

There is another form of power that is good - as incarnated in the heart of the hobbits, as found in the bloodshed of Christ.

The Power of God

The hobbit’s power, Christ’s power, is immunity to evil. Frodo’s heart, up to this point, has resisted the power of the Ring precisely because of his weakness. He has no ability to abuse the power because he has little potential to wield its power. Frodo is weak, but in his weakness, he is strong. Frodo refuses to yield to temptations of evil. Frodo’s body is small and fragile, but underneath he wears armor that can stop the greatest darts of the enemy. His heart beats with goodness, with courage, with grace. He will bear the burden of sin upon his body, carrying it in order to destroy it.

God’s power is incorruptable goodness - a love that loves until the end, a love that cannot be perverted, a love that extends even to enemies. In my recent travels around Italy, I have seen this love tame the cruelest of enemies: St. Francis tamed the wolf, Sts. Peter and Paul tamed Rome. Far away in Jerusalem, upon Calvary, our Christ tamed the cross. Christ tamed death.

Frodo will carry his cross and be pierced by it, but in the end, he will defeat it not by the corrupting power of the ring, but by the incomprehensibly incorruptible power of merciful love.


Two Tombs

July 12, 2007

I am in Rome with my new wife. Yesterday we visited two tombs - Caesar Augustus’ and St. Peter’s.

One ruled the world.
One could not rule himself.
One fought battles and won wars.
One ran from the cross.
One named himself divine.
One denied the divine.
One lived and died in riches.
One lived and died in poverty.
One was called a God.
One was called a rock.

But in the end, Peter is entombed in beauty and adored by millions. He lives. And for Caesar? He lies forgotten in a rotting tomb. No one prays to him. No one cares about him. Everything he fought for has fallen. Everything he built has been conquered. Caesar is dead. Peter lives forever, in beauty, glory, and peace. So will all those who choose the cross, who lose our lives to save them. May God grant us all the mercy to give our lives to God, and to follow St. Peter!


The Morning After

July 5, 2007


The adult pregnancy rate associated with rape is estimated
to be 4.7% . . . there may be 32,101 annual rape-related pregnancies among American women over the age of 18. (CDC Rape Fact Sheet 2000)

As a new husband, sometimes I wonder what I would do if my beloved wife were raped and became pregnant. Abortion is out of the question. One does not return evil with further evil. But I wonder about myself - would I be able to love my child? What if I knew the rapist (as most women know their rapists)? What if the rapist was one of the disturbed men that we associate with in our volunteer work? Would I be able to look at my son’s face, the face of a rapist, and be able to love him? Would I, or we, feel compelled to give the child up for adoption?

And more importantly, what about our child? What would be best for him? I did some research, looking for stories of children who discovered that they were conceived in violence.

“I was a child concieved by rape. I was a closed adoption but with help of search angel was reunited. I found bmom and was told at that time that she was brutally raped. I did not deal well with this bit of information at all. This is becasue the entire time growing up my parents told me her age and his age and told me that they were probably in love and they made a mistake. Boy were they ever wrong. I have big issues knowing that I was concieved by rape. even worse I look exactly like him. Bmom everytime she sees me sees him. She has a hard time with it as well. If you so decide to tell your son please so not make it any time soon. Let him have his child hood. it is VERY difficult once the truth is made known.” (Forums)

“Every moment that I am alive is agony. My life has been hell. Somehow everyone loves to see me suffer. My mother is a lying schizophrenic murderer. My father was a rapist and a drug addict. They abandoned me and left me in abusive foster homes for most of my life. I will never be happy it is not possible. Now I am dying from 3 different diseases, and I might be pregnant. But my body is so diseased and hollow that either me or my baby will die. And I am only 16. Everyone thinks I am ok. But they don’t see me crying every night, wishing that I would die. Thats why I i never stopped doing all of the drugs, and I intentionally have sex with guys I think have STDs. I just want to suffer, that is what I am used to. I am so self destructive. I don’t think I will live to see my eighteenth birthday. And honestly I don’t care. Everyone has abandoned me. God must hate me. (Confessions)

I’ve struggled with my own issues, too. I met my biological father for the second time in 28 years last weekend - at my wedding. It was an emotional thing - to see your dad and your biological father sitting together at the same table.

True Conception

How does one reconcile a splintered conception, let alone a conception of violence and rape? I find strength in Christ, who sheds new light on the ‘truth’ of my creation. I found a Catholic website with testimonies of rape-conceived reconciliations:


“Through acquiring knowledge and regaining a close relationship with God, I began to see my life in a whole new way. A life with purpose. A life made through love; the opposite of what most people would say, but it’s true! A life made through His love, which is so much more powerful than any human parents love could ever be! I began to internalize that the rapist is not my creator. Neither is a promiscuous mother my creator. I am not of child of either one but rather I am a child of God. That is all that matters.” (Testimonies of those conceived by rape)

If I ever have a son conceived by rape, I will love him and keep him, no matter how tempting it might be to abandon him to another parent. I will tell him the truth - that though he was conceived in a moment of violence, his creation lay inside God’s heart, not a rapist’s.

Independence Day

Yesterday was July 4th, the birthday of our nation, a nation conceived in bloodshed. We light off fireworks and sing about ‘bombs bursting in air’, recalling the bloodshed that we think bought us liberty and freedom. Like a child conceived in rape, we assume that our existence is founded upon acts of violence. But rape didn’t create the child and war didn’t create America. Rather, every child is conceived by God. Every country is created by God. Both find their true source in His eternal love.

Whatever good there is in America, it comes from the life-giving love of God - not from war. If we are to celebrate anything, let us celebrate the miracle of God’s mercy. Our nation has been birthed in blood, conceived in sin, and yet . . . we are so beautiful. We are so blessed. We have the capacity for such greatness, if only we turn away from the violence that brought us into this world, if only we look deeply into the beating love of God’s only Son - Jesus Christ. If only we would embrace that love as the foundation of our existence, as the true source of our creation. If only we would sing songs and tell stories about martyrs instead of soldiers, about farmers instead of presidents, about our Father instead of our rapist . . . then we would see our own beauty, and finally be able to love.

God, bless America!


Are you a Wage-Slave?

June 23, 2007

Learn about Distributism, - the purported third way between socialism and capitalism, the Catholic way. Take the “Wage-Slave test” below:

  1. be the sole or principal owner in the business in which you work?

  2. own your own home, without burden of usurious debt?

  3. have daily leisure to spend time with your family?

  4. be the sole ‘breadwinner’ of the family, so that your wife is able to devote all of her love, talents and energy into your & her home and hearth?

  5. able to school your own children?

  6. able to afford basic necessities for civilized living, such as good musical instruments for your children?

  7. schedule out most of the activities of the day, or are they directed for you, either by bosses or clients?

Apparently, if you scored less than a 7, and you work hard, then you are a wage slave! I guess this means that if you scored a perfect 7, then you are a wage slave owner?

To put it in the most pragmatic and simple terms, distributism seems to be about setting a limit on how much $$$ a man or woman may possess. In other words, Bill Gates would have quite the IRS bill.

A few weeks ago I might have said that we could never set limits like this - because such limits would have to be enforced with violence. However, since having embraced Militancy, I think that such limits could be enforced nonviolently (under strict conditions - grave situation, last resort, proper authority, etc). What a strange rabbit hole I find myself in.


Militant: The War of Mercy

June 20, 2007

Part 1: Nonviolence vs. The Just-War
Part 2: Justice vs. Mercy
Part 3: The War of Mercy

(Disclaimer: I hope that this discussion can lead all of us to a closer look at Church teachings, and so I have tried to keep my thoughts focused upon the Magisterium’s teachings. It’s my hope that any discussion provoked by this post will maintain the same mindset. Though we can find truth in many places, why not go to its source - Christ and his Church? I’ve avoided scripture because as Catholics, our understanding of scripture should first be firmly grounded within Catholic thought. I’ve avoided specific situations of pacifism because they focus on application before understanding. And finally, I’ve avoided judgmental talk of good and evil, of sins and saints. I’m not out to condemn anyone. I’m out to discover truth.)

Recap of Militant, Parts 1 & 2:

Part 1 concluded that the Church is absolutely clear about the duty of self-defense, but equally clear that love is the only solution to evil. In the end, the mercy of nonviolence and the justice of war were held in tension.

“The pillars of true peace are justice and that form of love which is forgiveness .”
- Pope JPII (2005 Peace Message)

Part 2 explored the relationship between justice and mercy, and found that justice can only be established through mercy.

“Mercy is in a certain sense contrasted with God’s justice, and in many cases is shown to be not only more powerful than that justice but also more profound. Even the Old Testament teaches that, although justice is an authentic virtue in man, and in God signifies transcendent perfection nevertheless love is “greater” than justice: greater in the sense that it is primary and fundamental. Love, so to speak, conditions justice and, in the final analysis, justice serves love. The primacy and superiority of love vis-a-vis justice - this is a mark of the whole of revelation - are revealed precisely through mercy.”
- Pope JPII (1980 Encyclical Dives in misericordia)

Part 3 has taken weeks to write, because I’ve found my heart moving on this subject. After having read encyclical after encyclical, after having looked at the Church’s teachings in a depth that I never have, I’ve come to a startling conclusion.

I’ve been wrong.

I am no longer a pacifist.

I’ve always hated that label - ‘pacifist’. I’m glad to see it go. So what am I? A Catholic, sure. But what else? I am, strangely enough, exactly what my father predicted I would become - a person who has renounced violence yet recognizes the legitimate use of force - both individual and societal force - in combating injustice within our world.

The Way of Violence

“The way of violence cannot obtain true justice.”
- Pope JPII (1987 Peace Message)

On June 6th, 1944, D-Day, countless men lost their lives on the beaches of Normandy. I find it hard to accept their deaths as anything but folly. I certainly honor every soldier’s courage and heart in facing death with the intention of defending the common good. I can understand and appreciate those who join the military with the intention of serving peace. That is what I did. It is what my father did. It is what my little brother is doing.

But understanding isn’t the same as endorsing. Honoring an intention isn’t the same as condoning an action. Just as the ignorant soldiers of Stalin, Mao, and Hitler can be honored for their dutiful yet misguided hearts, so too can those same soldiers be admonished for their lack of faith - their refusal to follow the lead of our Church’s newest martyr, Franz Jägerstätter, who wrote:

“As a Christian, I prefer to do my fighting with the Word of God and not with arms,” he wrote. “We need no rifles or pistols for our battle, but instead spiritual weapons — and the foremost among these is prayer.”

These are the words of a martyr. Those who lack faith in spiritual weapons of mercy must first face down the witness of the martyrs!

We who were filled with war and mutual slaughter and every wickedness have each of us in all the world changed our weapons of war … swords into plows and spears into pruning hooks.” (Trypho 110) “We who formerly murdered one another now not only do not make war upon our enemies but, that we may not lie or deceive our judges, we gladly die confessing Christ. (I Apol. 39)
- St. Justin Martyr

The Folly of Violence

Those who died on the beaches of Normandy died in futility, fighting for justice with all the wrong weapons - weapons in opposition to the prayers of their heart. While a forceful defense against Nazi Germany was warranted, while aggressive action was needed to restore justice to a conquered continent, while the conditions of the just-war theory were clearly met, and while justice required the use of force to combat the Nazis, justice did not demand machine guns, bombers, tanks, killing, and violence. Justice did not and does not demand death. Justice does not demand violence. Rather, justice demands mercy. The true weapons of justice, of the just-war, are forgiveness, prayer, love, and mercy.

Justice makes whole, it does not destroy; it leads to reconciliation, not to revenge.
- Pope JPII (1998 Peace Message)

It isn’t difficult to highlight the folly of violence as a means of restoring justice.

“The way of violence cannot obtain true justice.”
- Pope JPII (1987 Peace Message)

Pope JPII refers specifically to terrorist violence in this Peace Message, yet his teaching remains valid for ‘the way of violence’ - the belief that violence can truly obtain justice. ‘The way of violence’ trusts in violent force as a means of fighting injustice. ‘The way of violence’ does not trust in merciful force as a means of fighting injustice. It does not trust in forgiveness. It does not trust in self-sacrifice. It only trusts in other-sacrifice.

As an Army veteran and former Ranger, I was indoctrinated in the way of violence. I was taught to have faith in violent force. Every time I hear or read a soldier’s story, I see the same thing, I see myself 4 years ago, drowning in the same futile faith:

Here is your situation Marine:

You just took fire from unlawful combatants (no uniform - breaking every Geneva Convention rule there is) shooting from a religious building attempting to use the sanctuary status of their position as protection.

But you’re in Fallujah now, and the Marine Corps has decided that they’re not playing that game this time. That was Najaf. So you set the mosque on fire and you hose down the terrorists with small arms, launch some AT-4s (Rockets), some 40MM grenades into the building and things quiet down. So you run over there, and find some tangos (bad guys) wounded and pretending to be dead. You are aware that suicide martyrdom is like really popular with these idiots, and they think taking some Marines with them would be really cool. So you can either risk your life and your fire team’s lives by having them cover you while you bend down and search a guy that you think is pretending to be dead for some reason. Most of the time these are the guys with the grenade or vest made of explosives. Also, you don’t know who or what is in the next room. You’re already speaking English to the rest of your fire team or squad which lets the terrorist know you are there and you are his enemy.

You are speaking loud because your hearing is poor from shooting people for several days. So you know that there are many other rooms to enter, and that if anyone is still alive in those rooms, they know that Americans are in the mosque. Meanwhile (3 seconds later), you still have this terrorist (that was just shooting at you from a mosque) playing possum. What do you do? You double tap his head, and you go to the next room, that’s what!!! What about the Geneva Convention and all that Law of Land Warfare stuff? What about it.

Without even addressing the issues at hand, your first thought should be, “I’d rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6.” Bear in mind that this tactic of double tapping a fallen terrorist is a perpetual mindset that is reinforced by experience on a minute by minute basis . . . there is no compelling reason for you to do anything but double tap this idiot and get on with the mission.

If you are a veteran, then everything I have just written is self evident. If you are not a veteran, then at least try to put yourself in the situation. Remember, in Fallujah there is no yesterday, there is no tomorrow, there is only now. Right NOW. Have you ever lived in NOW for a week? It is really, really not easy. If you have never lived in NOW for longer than it takes to finish the big roller coaster at Six Flags, then shut your hole about putting Marines in jail for “War Crimes”.

The ‘way of violence’ makes sense in a world without Christ crucified and risen. Soldiers are taught how to kill, they are taught that killing makes sense, they are taught that killing works. We’ve all been taught that killing works. But it doesn’t. ‘The way of violence’ doesn’t forge justice, it doesn’t forge peace. The way of violence is folly.

“Violence is a lie . . . violence destroys what it claims to defend: the dignity, the life, the freedom of human beings.”
- Pope John Paul II (Address at Drogheda, Ireland 1979)

A History of Folly

Throughout history, our Church has demanded that men and nations turn away from the way of violence, and pursue another path - a path of mercy:

We implore those in whose hands are placed the fortunes of nations to hearken to Our voice. Surely there are other ways and means whereby violated rights can be rectified. Let them be tried honestly and with good will, and let arms meanwhile be laid aside . . . Let them not allow these words of a friend and of a father to be uttered in vain.
- Pope Benedict XV (1914 Encyclical Ad Beatissimi Apostolorum)

In 1914, at the beginning of WWI, our Pope asked men to try another way to restore justice. But they had more faith in ‘the way of violence’ than the way of mercy. ‘The way of violence’ did eventually work to end the killing, but it did not work to end the injustice - an injustice which led straight to WWII.

“The Great War . . . did not serve to lessen but increased, by its acts of violence and of bloodshed, the international and social animosities which already existed . . . Peace indeed was signed in solemn conclave between the belligerents of the late War. This peace, however, was only written into treaties. It was not received into the hearts of men, who still cherish the desire to fight one another”
- Pope Pius XI (1922 Encyclical Ubi Arcano Dei Consilio)

Justice, even international justice between warring states, cannot be achieved aside from the Gospel force of merciful love!

“Thank God, one may believe the time has passed when the call to moral and Gospel principles to guide the life of states and peoples was disdainfully thrust aside as unreal. The events of these war years have given ample evidence to confute, in a harder way than one could ever have imagined, those who spread such doctrine. The disdain that they affected towards this supposed unreality has been changed into stark reality: brutality, iniquity, destruction, annihilation.”
- Pope Pius XII (1944 Christmas Message)

Sadly, men and women continue to thrust aside the Gospel as the solution to peace within and among nations. They lock the Gospel into a box that says, “Do not open until the Parousia,” and outside of that box, in a world without the Gospel of Love, merciless injustice reigns:

Let all of them remember what war brings in its wake, as we know only too well from experience—nothing but ruin, death and every sort of misery . . . there have never been lacking, either in ancient or in more recent times, those who tried to subjugate the peoples by the use of arms; on the other hand, We have never ceased to promote a true peace. The Church desires to win over peoples and to educate them to virtue and right social living, not by means of arms but with the truth. For “the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty to God”
- Pope Pius XII (1950 Encyclical Summi Maeroris)

The Weapons of Mercy

The weapons of Christian warfare are not bombers and bullets. In ignorance, we have been waging just-wars with unjust weapons. We have been warring for justice with weapons that betray justice. And the injustices of war will continue until we pick up the weapons of mercy.

The Magisterium condemns “the savagery of war” and asks that war be considered in a new way. - CSDC 497

While some Americans seem to dismiss anything our Bishops have to say about violence, the successors of the Apostles have demanded that war be reconsidered. This doesn’t mean that the Church is asking us to lay down on our bellies and let terrorists kill our loved ones. Rather, we are being asked to tackle the ’savagery of war’, and in this light, to reconsider war - to reconsider the savage weapons of war. The Church has a history of questioning not so much our right to self-defense, but the weapons we use in such self-defense.

We prohibit under anathema that murderous art of crossbowmen and archers, which is hateful to God
- Lateran Council II : 1139 A.D.

The Church has never ceased to fight against the injustices of the just-war. While always recognizing the right to self-defense, the Church has adamantly opposed methods of defense that violate the foundations of mercy and the pursuit of justice - from torture to crossbows, from nuclear weapons to crucifixion. On the positive side, our Magisterium has also proposed for us the supreme weapon of mercy - nonviolence.

“We have need of the God who overcomes on the cross, who does not conquer with violence, but with his love . . . through the nonviolence of his cross . . . (it) is a way of conquering that seems very slow to us, but it is the true way of overcoming evil, of overcoming violence, and we must trust this divine way of overcoming.”
- Pope Benedict XVI (26July2006 Zenit)

Nonviolent Force

Nonviolent force is the only force that has a chance of restoring justice, because it is the only force founded upon mercy - the only force unwilling to harm or kill. While those who use violent force are prepared to sacrifice their enemy, those who use nonviolent force are prepared to sacrifice themselves. Yet both seek the same goal:

The defense of the common good requires that an unjust aggressor be rendered unable to cause harm.
- CCC 2265

The only difference between nonviolent force and violent force is who we are willing to sacrifice - ourselves or our enemies. In each case, the use of force has dangers. The use of force is never guaranteed to achieve what we set out to achieve. The use of force often fails. But there is a question of hope. Violent force has no hope of restoring justice. Nonviolent force, being founded upon merciful love of enemy - a love willing to go to death for the enemy - such force is the only weapon capable of restoring justice to a splintered world.

Nonviolent Weapons

Only under the most strict conditions can the following weapons ever be considered for use against an aggressor - conditions detailed by the just-war theory. Otherwise, nonviolent force would become simply another means of domination. Nonviolent force ought only to be used as a last resort, in response to a violation of justice that is lasting, grave, and certain. But if those conditions (among others) are met, then we must respond. We must protect ourselves with force.

This is a major change of heart for me. It leads me down strange paths that are unfamiliar - paths that have barely been explored. But they must be! In a world that adores violence, how are Christians to forcefully defend themselves with nonviolence?

Why not go to those who are experts in force, to the military? For those who doubt that nonviolent force could be used effectively to defend ourselves, take a close look at why the military would expend so much time and effort researching the following nonviolent weapons:

1) The Stink Bomb

“GOTTA get out of here. Heart’s pounding. Can’t think. Can’t speak. Daren’t breathe. Just run . . . They don’t know what the evil-smelling odour is but their noses tell them it’s dangerous, and within seconds their stomachs sound the general alarm. In two minutes the streets are empty. All that’s left is a terrible stink.

This hasn’t happened yet, but it could if the US Army succeeds in its effort to create the mother of all stink bombs . . . The search for the perfect stink bomb is part of the Pentagon’s Nonlethal Weapons Program . . . It could also help peacekeeping forces keep warring factions apart by creating stench-filled exclusion zones . . . ideal for ending a siege without firing a shot, or for dispersing rioters or even marking the ringleaders so they can’t escape into the crowd.” (New Scientist)

2) Liquid Ball Bearings

Sometimes keeping an enemy down but not out is good enough. The Southwest Research Institute in Texas has created a sprayable antitraction gel for the Marines that is so slippery it is impossible to drive or even walk on it; one researcher describes it as “liquid ball bearings.” Spray the stuff on a door handle, and it becomes too slippery to turn. The antitraction gel is mostly water, so it dries up in about 12 hours. It is also nontoxic and biodegradable. (Time)

3) Sticky Foam

an incapacitant . . . consisting of various extremely tacky and/or tenacious materials carried in compressed form with a propellant and used to block, entangle, and impair individuals (wikipedia). . . some facilities storing uranium and plutonium now boast steel doors with containers of hydrocarbon solution built into them. Breach the door, and the liquid comes foaming out under high pressure, expanding in bulk by a factor of forty and sealing the breach with an impassable obstacle. (DefenseTech)

4) Dazzlers

The Veiling Glare Laser . . . obscures a wide field of view by creating a dazzling wall of light that swamps your vision. It is rather like looking through a dusty windscreen illuminated by bright sunlight . . . (it) exploits a rather unsettling phenomenon called lens fluorescence. The lens of the human eye is transparent to visible light, but certain violet or ultraviolet wavelengths can make it fluoresce, or glow. When your lens fluoresces, all you can see is glare. (New Scientist, LaserDazzler.net)

As an absolute pacifist, I didn’t have to think much. Now, I have to discern when force is appropriate, when it is not. I have to discern what is harmful to a person and what is not (the different between a restraint hold and a taser gun). But in the end, the law of love always holds true. I must always fight for justice with nonviolent and sacrificial love!

The War of Mercy

No force, no matter how nonviolent, can ever hope to bring peace to the world. Peace is brought through love, and through love alone. What are we defending with nonviolent force? We are defending our right to love, to . . .

  • To feed the hungry
  • To give drink to the thirsty.
  • To clothe the naked.
  • To visit and ransom the captives.
  • To shelter the homeless.
  • To visit the sick.
  • To bury the dead.
  • To admonish sinners.
  • To instruct the ignorant.
  • To counsel the doubtful.
  • To comfort the sorrowful.
  • To bear wrongs patiently.
  • To forgive all injuries.
  • To pray for the living and the dead.

War truly is an expedient. But only if waged nonviolently. Only a nonviolent war can allow us to work mercy upon the world, and to see it united in peace and justice.

Christian nonviolence . . . does not consist in surrendering to evil — as claims a false interpretation of “turn the other cheek” (Luke 6:29) — but in responding to evil with good. (Romans 12:17-21), and thus breaking the chain of injustice.
- Pope Benedict XVI (Angelus 18FEB2007)

“. . . the pity of Bilbo, may rule the fate of many - yours not the least.”
- Gandalf

I am no longer a pacifist. I am Catholic. I am . . .

Militant.


Ron Paul, Anarchist?

June 14, 2007

Ron Paul recently appeared on The Colbert Report. To be honest, I feel more affinity for Ron Paul than I do for any other candidate. Though I think many people associate ‘anarchism’ with left-leaning politics, my personal support of Catholic anarchism (to use a dreaded label) is more rooted in libertarianism and federalism. I grew up hearing the conservative refrain, “the government is best that governs least,” and I believe it. This principle is summed up and modified nicely by the Church’s social doctrine of subsidiarity:

The principle of subsidiarity is opposed to certain forms of centralization, bureaucratization, and welfare assistance and to the unjustified and excessive presence of the State in public mechanisms. “By intervening directly and depriving society of its responsibility, the Social Assistance State leads to a loss of human energies and an inordinate increase of public agencies, which are dominated more by bureaucratic ways of thinking than by concern for serving their clients, and which are accompanied by an enormous increase in spending.” . . .

Subsidiarity, understood in the positive sense as economic, institutional or juridical assistance offered to lesser social entities, entails a corresponding series of negative implications that require the State to refrain from anything that would de facto restrict the existential space of the smaller essential cells of society. Their initiative, freedom and responsibility must not be supplanted.
- Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church

In other words - higher institutions are created to serve lower institutions. What people can do for themselves, they ought to do. When people can’t do something for themselves and need help - that’s when higher institutions should step in. Institutions ought to support individuals, not supplant them. As I understand it, Catholic anarchism isn’t about disorder and disorganization. It is about the Gospel’s call to transform power into service, it is about replacing domination with coordination. There is a reason that one of the Pope’s many titles is servant of the servants.

Watch Ron Paul and Colbert deliver a stunning performance. My favorite line… “It is dissent from government policies that defines the true patriot and the champion of liberty.”


Taming the Tongue

June 12, 2007

I think, perhaps, that America could benefit from some training in nonviolent communication (NVC). Certainly the Catholic blogosphere could.

Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.

The lies start early, and what’s worse - we tell them to ourselves. Words hurt. Words kill.

“The tongue is a small member and yet has great pretensions. Consider how small a fire can set a huge forest ablaze. The tongue is also a fire. It exists among our members as a world of malice, defiling the whole body and setting the entire course of our lives on fire, itself set on fire by Gehenna. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by the human species, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. This need not be so, my brothers.”
- James 3

The basics of nonviolent communication (NVC), as postulated by Dr. Rosenberg, are:

  1. Observation
  2. Feelings
  3. Needs
  4. Requests


Observation

“You!” Leonard shouted at me, pointing his quivering finger. “You never do anything! No chores, no nothing!

I will admit that I sometimes fail to fulfill my duties within our community. But Leonard’s accusations are a perfect example of violent communication. By saying that I did nothing, he wasn’t attempting to communicate an observation. He was trying to get me to do something - more chores.

In NVC, observation simply means communicating what we have experienced without judgment. “You never do chores,” becomes “Yesterday I woke up and saw the the floor was dirty.” “You are a liberal,” becomes “I heard you say over lunch that you are going to vote for Hillary Clinton.” “You’re lazy,” becomes “When I left in the morning for work I saw you sitting on the couch eating Coco Puffs, and when I came back from work I saw you sitting on the couch eating what appeared to be the remnants of a pint of rocky road ice cream.”

Observing honestly takes great work. We can’t resort to labels when observing. Summarizing doesn’t work either. It takes very specific and very unbiased reporting of what we experienced. It is not a judgment. It is an observation.

“Muslims (have a) predilection for violence.”
- Ann Coulter

An objective observer might say, “Every day I turn on the television set and I see a news report of a suicide bomber in Iraq.” But Ann Coulter isn’t attempting to communicate observations, she’s not communicating her experiences. She’s communicating her judgment - namely that Muslims have a predilection for violence.

NVC maintains that we must base our communication off of objective experience before getting to our judgments. To place our judgments first is to enter into perilous territory, for our judgments are often erroneous. And yet, even if our judgments are correct, we cannot claim that our judgments are objective observations. Judgments must never be cloaked under the guise of objective experience. “You never do anything!” becomes the basis of conflict rather than reconciliation. “I woke up yesterday and saw that the floor was dirty,” serves truth before judgment, and leads to a truly nonviolent resolution of a conflict before it even begins.

Feelings

“I’m offended that you would say that.”

According to Rosenberg, most of us lack a language of feelings. We use words like ‘bad’, ‘good’, ‘happy’, ’sad’, and so forth, but we don’t really go much deeper than that. And lacking such a vocabulary, we are often unable to articulate what we feel. Here are some words that we might know the definition to, but might not use regularly in reference to our feelings.

Amazed, Joyous, Comfortable, Moved, Confident, Optimistic, Eager, Proud, Energetic, Relieved, Fulfilled, Stimulated, Glad, Surprised, Hopeful, Thankful, Inspired, Touched, Intrigued, Trustful, Angry, Hopeless, Annoyed, Impatient, Confused, Irritated, Concerned, Lonely, Disappointed, Nervous, Discouraged, Overwhelmed, Distressed, Puzzled, Embarrassed, Reluctant, Frustrated, Sad, Helpless, Uncomfortable

You’ll notice that a few words are missing - insulted, offended, rejected, hated. When looked at closely, we notice that some ‘feelings’ aren’t primarily about our emotion. They don’t say as much about our internal feelings as they do about our external judgments. ‘Insulted’ doesn’t really say much about our feelings. It says a lot about how we view someone else’s words or actions. Same with ‘offended’ or ‘rejected’ or any of the other accusations we pass off as emotions.

Sharing our internal feelings is often hard. It makes us vulnerable. It also focuses on ourselves rather than someone else. And in a situation of conflict, the last place we want to turn a microscope is our own heart. But that is exactly the source of all conflict. Once we look inside and see our emotions - emotions disconnected from judgments - then we can really begin to make progress. Only once we specifically identify what we are feeling can we move on to the next stage.

In other words, when we read blogs, we often feel a whole assortment of feelings rush through us. Unless we sit down and probe those feelings, we are simply going to react. NVC is designed to get us to slow down for a second, to see what is happening inside us, and then to react with reason.

Needs

“I need you to SHUTUP!”

Rosenberg claims that our feelings come from needs that are either fulfilled or unfulfilled, that basically what we feel is related to our desires. He asks us to connect our feelings with our personal desires. Here’s an example:

I get home from a long day at work. The house is a mess, and everyone is sitting around watching TV. They’ve been watching TV all day. I’m angry. Why am I angry? Because they won’t clean the house!

Not exactly. What is my personal desire? Not my desire for someone else, by a personal desire directed inward? A desire related to what I need?

I need a clean house. I desire a clean house. I need to live in a place that is beautiful. I desire to have free time when I get home. I need relaxation. I desire tranquility and calm.

When we honestly evaluate our emotions, we will often get to desires and personal needs. We will see that a lot of our emotion is caused by not getting things we need. All too often, we try to justify our emotions by putting them on someone else. You did this, you did that. He didn’t do this, she didn’t do that. But NVC, again, asks us to look inside. What is it about my heart that is provoking my feelings? God knows that external events have an effect on me. But why do they have an effect? What is it about me that is causing my feelings?

When we own our feelings, and communicate our needs, we begin to see things in a way we never have before. We begin to feel empowered. We begin to see that the source of conflict often begins in our own needful and broken heart.

Requests

This is the hard part. We’ve identified our observations, “I saw that the floor was dirty.” We’ve identified our feelings, “I feel frustrated and angry.” We’ve identified our needs, “I feel frustrated because I need a clean home when I come home from work.” Now we get to the simple part - “Could you please clean the floor with me?”

If it was only that easy. NVC only really begins to produce fruit when the requests are denied, when the feelings grow stronger, when the conflict gets intense. It is a mindset rather than a method - a mindset of focusing upon our own heart, upon precise objectivity, upon the refusal to judge another person. It is about judging emotions and thoughts and events, not persons.

In the end, we have to ask ourselves - what are words for? Are they for communicating? Or are they for hurting? Are words meant to coerce, or are words meant to share who we are?

I think the answer is clear enough.

“But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.”
- Matthew 12:36


Militant in Training

June 10, 2007

In writing a three part defense of Catholic nonviolence and pacifism, I’ve been reading and reflecting heavily upon the Church’s teachings, especially papal encyclicals and messages. And within this process, I have found my heart moved. The wisdom and love of Christ has unearthed deep questions, and within those questions, I find an opportunity of conversion. Am I no longer an absolute pacifist, no longer an anarchist? Something different? Something deeper? At this point, all I know is that I am Catholic, radical, militant. Part three of Militant - the War of Mercy - is forthcoming. Again, I am amazed by God’s grace and power - the power to propel me down the path of faith, to true conversion, to true militancy.

Where do we turn to for conversion?

Resources for conversion:

Next in line - the great councils of the Church:

  1. Council of Nicaea I : 325 A.D.
  2. Council of Constantinople I : 381 A.D.
  3. Council of Ephesus : 431 A.D.
  4. Council of Chalcedon : 451 A.D.
  5. Council of Constantinople II : 553 AD
  6. Council of Constantinople III : 680-681 A.D.
  7. Council of Nicaea II : 787 A.D.
  8. Council of Constantinople IV : 869-870 A.D.
  9. Lateran Council I : 1123 A.D.
  10. Lateran Council II : 1139 A.D.
  11. Lateran Council III : 1179 A.D.
  12. Lateran Council IV : 1215 A.D.
  13. Council of Lyons 1 : 1245 A.D.
  14. Council of Lyons 2 : 1274 A.D.
  15. Council of Vienne : 1311-12 A.D.
  16. Council of Constance 1414-18 A.D.
  17. Council of Basel-Ferrara-Florence : 1431-1435 A.D.
  18. Lateran Council V : 1512-17 A.D.
  19. Council of Trent : 1545-63 A.D.
  20. Vatican Council I : 1869 AD
  21. Vatican Council 2: Index [Text version - at RCNET]
    Vatican Council 2: Index [HTML versions - at EWTN]

Here are something interesting to think about, and a prelude to Militant, Part 3:

We prohibit under anathema that murderous art of crossbowmen and archers, which is hateful to God
- Second Lateran Council

The more I learn from the Church, the more I love the Church. The more I love the Church, the more I learn from the Church. And all the while, I grow closer and closer to being the person Christ has destined me to be. St. Augustine, pray for us!


Marriage - contract or sacrament?

June 7, 2007


“Legislation was passed which did not recognize that either God or Jesus Christ had any rights over marriage—an erroneous view which debased matrimony to the level of a mere civil contract, despite the fact that Jesus Himself had called it a “great sacrament” (Ephesians v, 32) and had made it the holy and sanctifying symbol of that indissoluble union which binds Him to His Church. The high ideals and pure sentiments with which the Church has always surrounded the idea of the family, the germ of all social life, these were lowered, were unappreciated, or became confused in the minds of many. As a consequence, the correct ideals of family government, and with them those of family peace, were destroyed; the stability and unity of the family itself were menaced and undermined, and, worst of all, the very sanctuary of the home was more and more frequently profaned by acts of sinful lust and soul-destroying egotism—all of which could not but result in poisoning and drying up the very sources of domestic and social life.”
- Pope Pius XI (UBI ARCANO DEI CONSILIO)

Sound familiar?


Militant, Part 2

June 6, 2007

Part 1: Nonviolence vs. The Just-War
Part 2: Justice vs. Mercy
Part 3: The War of Mercy

(Disclaimer: I hope that this discussion can lead all of us to a closer look at Church teachings, and so I have tried to keep my thoughts focused upon the Magisterium’s teachings. It’s my hope that any discussion provoked by this post will maintain the same mindset. Though we can find truth in many places, why not go to its source - Christ and his Church? I’ve avoided scripture because as Catholics, our understanding of scripture should first be firmly grounded within Catholic thought. I’ve avoided specific situations of pacifism because they focus on application before understanding. And finally, I’ve avoided judgmental talk of good and evil, of sins and saints. I’m not out to condemn anyone. I’m out to discover truth.)

Recap of Militant, Part 1:
Nonviolence vs. Just-War

(God) does not oppose violence with a stronger violence. He opposes violence precisely with the contrary: with love to the end, his cross . . . With his love — and only thus is it possible — he puts a limit to violence . . . it is the true way of overcoming evil.
- Pope Benedict XVI (26July2006 Zenit)

Christian nonviolence - loving our enemy by dying for him, is the true way to conquer evil.

“Christians, even as they strive to resist and prevent every form of warfare, have no hesitation in recalling that, in the name of an elementary requirement of justice, peoples have a right and even a duty to protect their existence and freedom by proportionate means against an unjust aggressor”
- Pope JPII (1982 Peace Message)

While only love truly defeats evil, justice demands that we defend the innocent. Without justice, can there be love? Without justice, can there be peace?

There is no peace without justice.
There is no justice without forgiveness.”

- Pope JPII (2005 Peace Message)

I decided to leave the military because I could not reconcile love with justice, I could not reconcile mercy with justice. I still can’t. But I must.

Militant, Part 2:
Justice vs. Mercy

In order to understand the relationship between nonviolence and the just-war theory, I need to understand the relationship between mercy and justice. What does the Church teach? What is justice? What is mercy? How are they related?

“Justice makes whole, it does not destroy; it leads to reconciliation, not to revenge. Upon examination, at its deepest level it is rooted in love, which finds its most significant expression in mercy. Therefore justice, if separated from merciful love, becomes cold and cutting.”
- Pope JPII (1998 Peace Message)”justice is based on love, flows from it and tends towards it”
- Pope JPII (1980 Encyclical Dives in misericordia)

Justice is based on love, ‘merciful love’. This clarifies the relationship, but then again – I still feel as if mercy and justice are opposing forces. How does one reconcile the call of mercy with the demands of justice? How can I be merciful to my enemy while sticking a bayonet into his throat? There is a true contrast between my understanding of mercy and justice. How do I resolve that?

“In this way, mercy is in a certain sense contrasted with God’s justice, and in many cases is shown to be not only more powerful than that justice but also more profound. Even the Old Testament teaches that, although justice is an authentic virtue in man, and in God signifies transcendent perfection nevertheless love is “greater” than justice: greater in the sense that it is primary and fundamental. Love, so to speak, conditions justice and, in the final analysis, justice serves love. The primacy and superiority of love vis-a-vis justice - this is a mark of the whole of revelation - are revealed precisely through mercy.”
- Pope JPII (1980 Encyclical Dives in misericordia)

If merciful love is fundamental and superior to justice, then what does this tell us about the relationship between mercy and justice?

“The experience of the past and of our own time demonstrates that justice alone is not enough, that it can even lead to the negation and destruction of itself, if that deeper power, which is love, is not allowed to shape human life in its various dimensions.”
- Pope JPII (1980 Encyclical Dives in misericordia)

The quest for justice, if unshaped by merciful love, will only produce injustice.

“Mercy constitutes the fundamental content of the messianic message of Christ and the constitutive power of His mission. His disciples and followers understood and practiced mercy in the same way. Mercy never ceased to reveal itself, in their hearts and in their actions, as an especially creati